Anonymous asked // Hi! I met a guy, we chat, one day had sex and I asked of being sexbuddies afterwars and he agreed. He continued talking to me afterwards, and suddenly we have 9thousand messages on Facebook since February. I'm starting to like him more and more, and I have a crush on him. What should I do?
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You’re going to have to talk to him about this sooner or later.. I’ve personally never been involved with this type of relationship because I was always scared I’d start to gain feelings when we said that wasn’t going to happen (or the opposite) so I’m not sure how difficult it would be to talk about that with the person - But I could imagine it being a little awkward but you guys seem to talk a lot which, hopefully, could make you talking about it easier <3
Anonymous asked // hey I really need advice and I am hoping your outside perspective can help me. I broke up with my ex a little over 2 weeks ago because of crappy stuff he was doing but I thought he would just fix it and we would be together bc we are awfully serious about each other. but these new people he met have been changing him and he didn't even try to save our relationship. I just found out that he is "with" one of the girls he recently befriended. We were so in love less than a month ago.. (continue)...
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“should I still try? I haven’t called him all week. and btw we are in a very long distance relationship, but we were also planning on marrying each other. I love him with all my heart and I know I will never love anybody else the way I love him. I don’t have the heart to let him go, but do I really have no choice?”
I hope I can as well! Hmm well this is definitely hard, and as hard as this will be, if I were you I’d stop trying for the moment - If he’s seriously with someone else only two weeks after you guys breaking up I’m not sure he’s taking your relationship as seriously as he should be.. Trust me, I know what it’s like to talk about a future and it all seem so promising and then have it all fall to nothing because of problems that aren’t being fixed.. it’s so, so hard. But you can’t settle for someone treating you bad just because of something you’ve spoken about (I know this from experience). So what I’m saying is, right now I’d start trying to get over this, if he wants to be with you he’ll put in the effort <3
